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I'm Melissa, your Mindless Mommy. I started this blog in 2007 to discuss my journey as a mom of two children on the autism spectrum.

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Archive: February 10th 2008

ADHD is Real

I don’t know how many times a month I hear someone tell me, not knowing my family’s makeup, that ADHD is not real.  Usually the comment is followed by a statement placing the blame on bad parents who can’t, or don’t want to, control their kids so they simply medicate them into a zombie state.  Our local news station even had a special report with a local counselor who swore up and down that ADHD is simply not a real condition.  As she sat there spewing her nonsensities, my son was jumping up and down incessantly trying to form a thought.  This was around dinner time and obviously his medication had worn off.  He never did get that sentence out.

I do agree with those that state that ADHD is overdiagnosed and overmedicated.  I do think that some children are placed on ADHD medication for the benefit of the teacher(s) and/or the parent(s).  Some children who are medicated are also like little zombies, I have seen it myself.  My son, however, is not one of these.  He is medicated because *he* notices the difference and likes the way he feels and act.  I’ve mentioned it before, he even calls it his “control medicine.” Pretty insightful comment from a five year-old.  Read my entry The Controversy Behind ADHD.

Parentingguides.org has an article up entitled “I Don’t Believe in ADHD” - it is more than worth the two minutes or so it takes to read it.